Moroccan bike adventures

Nov. 30, 2019

I joined my podcast guest Jelle Veyt (you can listen to the episode here), on his bicycle trip through Africa. Being the nutcase as he is, he's on a quest to cycle all the way to the Kilimanjaro in Tanzania.Myself, a nutcase as well, but in a "different" way, decided that 2 weeks was more than enough. So I joined him from Tarifa in Spain to Agadir in Morocco. As with every grand adventure, it is of the utmost importance that a story of it is wri...

Lessons learned in 2018

March 13, 2019

It would be interesting if we could share among each other what we learned in this year’s trip around the sun, and making it a bit more meaningful than just a night of decadent partying.Here’s what I learned looking back:- I don’t exist. I’m just a mental construct, and what a weight off my shoulders.- Life is not about me, it’s about the people around me.- The only scary things that happened in “dangerous” South America the last 6 months, only ocu...

How to achieve personal victory... On the toilet.

March 12, 2019

It feels about time to write something again. I know so many people have been waiting impatiently for my next post, hitting the refresh button of my website in a constant state of neurosis. To be honest, I can't wait to publish this post myself. I have been craving for Facebook likes for a while now, and I truly have missed the sweet taste of dopamine. It will be great to feel accepted again, and to inevitably spending my time waiting for that g...

You and I, naughty superheroes

Nov. 2, 2018

Before one steps out of his door and starts to travel, one has expectations of these life-changing insights that are bound to happen when one embarks on a big unknown adventure. Well, that’s a load of crap.My best insight so far has been that my intestines are far less strong than I thought, and even though social dining is great, there’s never an excuse to invite a multitude of micro-organisms to your dinner table.However, with this much free time...

My video resume

June 1, 2018

As a young (freelance) professional, it is important Steven presents himself in an original way. So he made a video resume.

Assholism is not a disorder

May 16, 2018

I have had the unique opportunity to have come into contact with some unique specimens suffering of "Assholism" during my professional career..After some careful analysis, I inferred that having this medical condition really has some benefits. Therefore I think we don't have to see Assholism as a disease, it is just another way of being. I hope by writing this I can help counter discrimination against this often discriminated group.Certainly in a c...

WANTED: the kid that lived in my head

Feb. 20, 2018

** I wrote this some years ago when I was tired of an unmeaningful work experience. I didn't share it publicly because my fear of getting negative reactions. Ironically enough that is actually the main reason I got burned out in the first place. **As a kid, I didn't win many popularity awards and was known to be quite awkward. I didn't really know what I wanted to do, and took very little things seriously. I had the ability to be incredibly annoyin...

Float with the tide, or swim for a goal?

Dec. 12, 2017

I was having a conversation with a friend last weekend (whom I met through Couchsurfing, really cool how this enables you to meet all kinds of people). We were talking about meditation and how our sense of self can give us constant stress. But then the question arose: "should we go live in a monastery then and be like a plant for the rest of our lives?".As Hunter Thompson so eloquently put it once in a letter to a friend asking for life advice (lin...

How to not turn into a zombie!

Nov. 19, 2017

Next time you are on a train, in a pub, just a very social place, take a look around you.. Do you see any addicts around you? Maybe you may see some drunk people, maybe even a drug addict! They should be ashamed of themselves right!How about people on their phones? Are they addicted? Of course not, you might think, I can’t get high by browsing through Facebook, chemical substances can never reach me via a virtual channel!How many times have you tak...

On meditation and Buddhism

Nov. 10, 2017

For the past few months, I have grown a keen interest into Buddhistic meditation.I'd like to share my experience in the hope that it might benefit you as well (and to be honest I just want to recap it for myself).To be clear, I don't believe in the religious hocus-pocus related to it, but it offered me (eventually) some super easy wisdom that I rarely payed any attention to before.And that's the thing, meditation is easy, too easy. After some month...

On goals and silliness

Aug. 23, 2017

"Start saving some money for a house!""You should get that promotion in 3 years!"We have been primed since our childhoods to think in terms of predefined goals. Life is a series of goals, and once you achieve one, you have another that's waiting inpatiently in line. And not achieving them by the time the deadline knocks on your shoulder, we see as a henious shame for which universal pitty seems to be the only cure.Our brains are so automised...

With big data comes big responsibility! (Dutch)

June 12, 2017

** As appeared in Belgian magazine Datanews (Roularta) **Iedereen van ons maakt honderden beslissingen per dag. Niet alleen in het echte leven, maar ook in onze virtuele interacties. En net zoals we in real-life beïnvloed worden door externe factoren in onze beslissingen, is dit op digitaal vlak evenzeer zo. De vraag die we ons moeten stellen, is of dit op een manier gebeurt die ons ten goede komt? We moeten dagelijks zoveel beslissingen nemen d...

Are you thinking or is your brain?

Jan. 8, 2015

Our decisions can be made using 2 processes, System 1 and System 2. This is called “dual-process" theory and was first layed out by Nobel-prize winning psychologist Daniel Kahneman. The fact that he won his Nobel prize in economics – not psychology - just shows how much impact this theory can have, if put to good use. System 1 makes most of our decisions and is impulsive, automatic, unconsious and intuitive. As an example, when you tied ...